My Life with Chronic Pain and Invisible Illnesses – Guest Post

Today I am bringing you the first ever guest post to feature on The post is by Pamela a fellow spoonie and chronic illness fighter. I pass you over to her and she can tell you all about her life with chronic pain and invisible illness. My name is Pamela Jessen and I live with Chronic Pain, Chronic Fatigue, Fibromyalgia and several other Invisible Illnesses. It’s an awful thing to live with constant pain, as well as having to try to describe it to people who just don’t “get it”. Having invisible illnesses is even worse, because there is nothing obvious that jumps out and says you’re in pain – no physical deformity, no cast, no stitches. Pamela My […]

How A Bad Doctors Appointment Can Put You Off

Finding a doctor who is understanding about your chronic condition can be a struggle.  The number of GP’s I’ve seen or stories I’ve heard from others about doctors not listening or helping is shocking!  I wrote previously about My Chronic Illness and GP’s  Where I spoke about the lack of support I was receiving by my doctor.  Shortly after writing that piece I moved practice and found a doctor who I felt got my condition and was helpful.  That is until one day, they don’t seem to be as understanding as you first thought.  They make you feel like you’re wasting their time.   You question whether you will go to see another doctor again.  My Latest Doctor Appointment Recently […]

Debenhams Do Plus Size!!

As someone who is plus size I know all to well how hard it has been to find clothes that are stylish and don’t make me look frumpy. In the last few years it feels like the plus size fashion industry has come a long way.  No longer are plus size babes limited to two or maybe three places where we can buy clothes. The clothes that are on offer to us now are more stylish and on trend. We still aren’t fully covered when it comes to sizing and ease of access on the High Street, but we are heading in the right direction.   One store that I was surprised to learn had a plus size range, is […]

The Changing Seasons – A Chronic Illness Survival Guide

The weather this summer has been glorious but it has been far too hot for some people, myself included.  Thankfully we are coming to the end of season.   I wanted to share some of the things I’ve learned this year to help cope the heat and chronic illness.  As well as sharing tips on dealing with the upcoming changes in seasons. What This Summer Taught Me Hot weather and fibromyalgia don’t make the best of friends.  They get on fine but don’t expect them to be talking after a few months of intense heat. The heat can cause symptoms to flare  During the heatwave that gripped the UK in July I learned a lot about how to cope with […]

Skulls, Tartan, Sprouts & Autumn. Days 24 – 31 of 31 days of Lists

Hello and welcome to the final post of the 31 days of lists series. Today I’m talking patterns, dislikes, obsessions, plants and what I’m looking forward to. If you’ve missed my previous list post you can find them here. Day 24 Favourite patterns Alexander McQueen skulls, some might not consider it a pattern but its my list. Tartan Damask Paisley Day 25 Food I dislike Brussels Sprouts (they are the food of the devil) Avocado Anchovies Lamb Day 26 Words I hate There aren’t many words that I dislike, maybe the C U Next Tuesday word Darling (i hate being called darling, it feels impersonal) Day 27 Stuff I’m allergic to Bullshit Day 28 Obsessions. Jared Leto Zachary Levi Instagram […]

McQueen, Discombobulate, Rock Stars & Spice Bomb – Days 17 – 23 of 31 Days of Lists.

Hello and welcome to another installment of my 31 days of lists serious, today I’m talking about my favourite words, who I want to meet, my favoutie scents and much more. Day 17 Other lives I’d want to live if I had nine lives. A rock star, who doesn’t fancy themselves a signer. A world leader, it doesn’t seem that you really need qualifications to do that job if some of our current leaders are anything to go by. Day 18 Favourite scents After the Rain – Arran Sense of Scotland. Amber-wood – Arran Sense of Scotland. Sexy Amber – Michael Kors. Spice Bomb – Viktor & Rolf. Fahrenheit – Dior. Princess – Vera Wang. Untold – Elizabeth Arden. Day […]

Hogwarts Express, Our Wedding, Tokyo and Ballons – Days 11 – 16 of 31 Days Of lists

Hi and welcome to the third instalment of the 31 days of lists challenge. If you’ve missed my previous posts, you can find it here. Today I’ll be cover day 11 to 16. Day 11 Things I miss My nana. My cat saffi. Old recipe Irn Bru. My nana’s cooking. Being a kid and not having a care in the world. Being on the back of a motorbike. Working the the cinema with my besties. Day 12 Places I want to travel to. Tokyo New York Boston Italy Australia Vietnam Amsterdam Iceland Finland Lapland Canada Day 13 Modes of transport i want to take. Hot air ballon Concord Steam train, Hogwarts Express or the Orient Express Tram Helicopter Cruise ship […]

I’ve Been Nominated For A Sunshine Blogger Award

Alice of Notebooks and Glasses has kindly nominated me for A Sunshine Blogger Award, which is such a surprise and to say that I am thrilled is an understatement!! What makes this nomination special is that it’s bloggers nominating other bloggers who have helped the community and brought a smile to their face through the posts the share.  At the time I received my award nomination I feeling a little down about my writing but the award has given me a new sense of purpose and has made me more focused on getting my voice out there and heard.   On her blog Alice writes about living a positive life with chronic pain, where she shares her own experiences with […]

Lists upon lists upon lists – Days 6 – 10

Hello and good morning.  if you read my previous post Sometimes We Need To Be Challenged, you’ll know that I’ve challenged myself to writing a new list  for the 31 days of july.  Today I bring to you my second post of the challege which from the title you can see is for the lists I wrote from 6th to 10th July. Day 6 Pet Peeves People who are rude and don’t acknowledge you for letting them through a door before or holding a door open for them. People who stop smack bang in the middle of an aisle or busy shopping centre to have a chat. Move over to the side and get out the way!!! Day 7 Reasons To […]

Sometimes We Need To Be Challenged.

As a SAHM with chronic illness and disabilities I tend to do the same thing day in, day out. I feel like I’m drowning in the mundane and need to find new ways to challenge myself and stop my brain turning to mush. I’m a bit of a list addict and found a pin on Pinterest 31 Days Of lists challenge.  For the rest of July I am going to take part in this list challenge and will post them on my site, as well as write them in my bullet journal. I’m not necessarily going to share one list per day. I’ll more than likely do a post a week with several lists in one, so anyone who is […]